"I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me." Song of Solomon 7:10
The sexual relationship. It's one of those elements--along with money and
children--that can derail a marriage through negative comments. Negativity
destroys intimacy, but encouragement builds and strengthens the marriage
Let's get practical here. Is your husband a "good lover?" Have you told him
so? Be specific. Let him know when he pleases you. Most husbands genuinely
want to please their wives, especially in this important area of marriage.
In moments of intimacy, do you find your mind wandering? This can change as
you focus on something wonderful about your husband. Realize that your
husband wants intimacy with you. His desire is toward you.
Does this area of your marriage need some work? Remember that this is a
sensitive area for men. Be sure to encourage his lovemaking and masculinity
in positive ways.By Nancy Leigh DeMoss